The World Thru My Eyes - I speak my mind and man does it like to talk.
They deserve all the benefits
Published on October 16, 2007 By CharlesCS In Current Events
I think we are heading in the wrong direction when it comes to doing what is best for this country. We seem to be focusing more on those who have the ability to survive by their own will and ignoring or mishandling those who truly need our help.

I despise any Gov’t program that gives free money, free food and free benefits to fully capable people who can work and make a living on their own. Having been on welfare and having family members on it, I can’t stand the idea of giving money to people who are able to work and make their own money to survive. As a child my mom was on welfare while my father worked. My mom had sisters who were also on welfare that were fully capable of making a living for themselves. I have been on food stamps before; times seemed very rough back then. But I was off of them faster than I was on them. I did not want to site home and do nothing while we got money from the Gov’t to buy food. I did not wanna go to jail for falsifying legal documents stating that I was searching for work when I knew I wasn’t. I eventually found myself a job and left Gov’t assistance behind. Best thing I ever did.

My real problem is how we do not focus enough on our children. How every year we make it harder and harder for children to be children, for children to get a decent education, for children to become the future of this country. We should aspire to help the future of this nation to reach the highest standards of education and health so that we can count on having a more secure future.

This is what I believe we, as a country, should do for our children:

1) School should be free for children, be it public or private, including all uniforms and school materials such as notebooks, textbooks, pencils, etc.
2) Transportation to school should be free and for every student.
3) Breakfast, lunch and snacks should be free for students.
4) After school programs such as Boys and Girls club, YMCA, tutoring and sports should be free.
5) Healthcare should be free for all children including dental; extreme circumstances such as surgery and long term sickness should be at reduced rates.
6) College should be partially paid by the Gov’t for the first 2 years so long as the students have good grades.

These are just a few I can come up with at the top of my head. Our children are precious, our children need us, they are our future. They deserve a chance to be the best they can be. Money should not dictate how far a child can go before becoming an adult and having a chance to be someone, to learn to survive on their own, to make a difference, to become the future of this nation.

I know what I believe in sounds extreme, expensive and maybe even impossible. But I think every child deserve a chance, especially when they depend on us adults to survive. We waste so much money on unnecessary programs, on people who cheat the system, on useless roads and buildings. We gave so much money to other countries while they insult, accuse and criticize us. I think we can put much of that money to better use in our children.

What do you think JU, am I asking for too much? Am I being unrealistic here? Or does this sound like something worth pondering about?

What say you?

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on Oct 16, 2007
Definitely something to ponder about, but you may be asking for too much. Basically, you're taking a lot of responsibility out of the hands of the parent and putting them into the hands of the government.

Now, I think the real problem is this - if the government is paying for school, meals, after school programs, healthcare, and college, then the government can regulate all those things. The more they pay, the more they regulate. And government regulation of all those things is a terrible thing. See, when the government regulates things, they like to eliminate any choice you may have. Also, the cost of everything goes up, and the effectiveness goes down.

What about people who want to homeschool? Government control of after school activity would lead to there being one or two ASAs, instead of the multitude we have now. After all, schools tend to cut the music and art programs first when they cut things, why wouldn't they cut after school programming until there's none? Free none, but none.

I think it's the kind of idea that would be great in theory, but not in practice. Having free stuff is great. Having the government in control sucks. So we pay for stuff so we can have better/nicer/more stuff than the government would give. You could suggest we make the government just pay for whatever we want, but that bird probably won't fly.
on Oct 16, 2007
Definitely something to ponder about, but you may be asking for too much. Basically, you're taking a lot of responsibility out of the hands of the parent and putting them into the hands of the government.


Well, I'm not necesarily taking away the responsibility from the parents but actually giving them a bit more freedom to stay afloat and move forward in life. By not having to worry about buying school supplies (since we here in Florida have to buy what the schools want, nothing more nothing less), uniforms (if they have uniforms), meals (I don't ever recall paying for my breakfast and lunch in school, now my son does, about $20 a week) and mode of transportation, parents will not have to rush to stores looking for items on sales, waiting for tax free days and the long lines at Walmart for schools supplies and uniforms. Children need healthy meals to keep their brains working properly in order to absorb all the knowledge, it's a shame that a child could go without lunch or breakfast just because he/she has no money in his/her account and already owes $5 to the lunch lady while the parents have to wait till payday to give the child money for his/her account.

This is not about making the Gov't do everything for us, but to give all children of this nation the same opportunities to make something of themselves with the hopes of securing a better future for this nation. Imagine how many of those children who could not finish school or afford college could have been great scientist, engineers, World Leaders, inventors; we could have had cures to many deseases, discovered the rtuth behind global warming, be using alternative fuels and even know more about outer space. But we will never really know because those children were never given a chance.

Now don't think I would expect every child in the country to be the next Albert Einstein, Bill Gates or George Washington; but at least we can feel good knowing we gave them the chance to reach the stars if they really wanted to.

Now, I think the real problem is this - if the government is paying for school, meals, after school programs, healthcare, and college, then the government can regulate all those things. The more they pay, the more they regulate. And government regulation of all those things is a terrible thing. See, when the government regulates things, they like to eliminate any choice you may have. Also, the cost of everything goes up, and the effectiveness goes down.


Yes, I know. Trust me when I say I would rather not have the Gov't involved. But my goal is not some kind of welfare system but a system that will have no limits, no walls, no obsticles to stop a child from getting the education they deserve. Once born as an American they automatically qualify, no need to apply. My main point here is that while the Gov't gets to set the rules, I always believed we, the people, are the Gov't and the rules would be set based on our choices not choices by some idiot in the oval office and a bunch of idiots in the 2 Houses. I just believe its time we took our Gov't back and with it our lives.

What about people who want to homeschool?


Well I never said making it mandatory, but if people chose to stay out of the system it is up to them to pay their way. Maybe some kind of tax break for not using schools materials and property.

Government control of after school activity would lead to there being one or two ASAs, instead of the multitude we have now. After all, schools tend to cut the music and art programs first when they cut things, why wouldn't they cut after school programming until there's none? Free none, but none.


What I meant was using the current ones we have but all having the same set of guidelines. Example, the Boys and Girls club my son currently goes to is not exactly one I would recomend all parents to try. I have very few choices in ASA where my son can be without affecting my job or that of his mother. I can not afford a better place so I'm really out of options. But this could be better if they had better rules, better control. Again, we take back our Gov't and make sure that our children are getting the right education, including art and music.

I think it's the kind of idea that would be great in theory, but not in practice.


That's why I asked if it seemed I was asking too much, hehe.

Having free stuff is great.


Now you see, I don't necessarily see it as free. To me this is kinda like paying for a car before you are actually old enough to drive it. This will be paid for by our own taxes, and allowing our children to have all the opportunities to become better citizens of this nation is payback enough for me. Even if some of them fail regardless.

Having the government in control sucks. So we pay for stuff so we can have better/nicer/more stuff than the government would give. You could suggest we make the government just pay for whatever we want, but that bird probably won't fly.


I would look at it the same way someone here looked at how we need the Gov't for such things as roads. As individuals we are not capable of making and maintain roads and bridges by ourselves, but together we can. Same for our childrens future.

I know this sounds like a lot and I'm sure there are better ways to do this. I am willing to listen to any ideas and suggestions. My goal is to make a good idea better, not have it "my way or the highway".
on Oct 16, 2007
The other problem, thanks for getting back to this so fast by the way, is that who are the kids that don't succeed going to blame their failure on? Their parents, for not providing? Can't, it was provided. No after school programs or extracurricular activities? Can't, they were available. No, they'll only have themselves to blame, and that is unnacceptable. So it will never get voted in!
on Oct 17, 2007
kids need to be educated not indoctrinated.


all this free stuff is nice. who is going to pay for it.
on Oct 17, 2007
Some schools, even public schools, have fees to be paid to get a schedule, and they hold the kids out of class until the fees are paid.
on Oct 17, 2007
Public schools are free, Charles. If you'd like private schools to also be free (at the point of service, that is, because we all know that when we say 'free' we mean 'paid for by tax dollars') then you need to support school voucher programs. I also believe there are programs in place to provide school supplies to low income families, and I know for sure that many private charities provide these items as well.


This is great stuff LW. Just the kind of questioning I was looking for. I know public schools are free. What I meant when I said free was their entire education till at least 12th grade. I probably would agree with school vouchers for private schools, but I just want it to be paid period, no questions asked. Except if the school abuses with charging to much, then there’s a problem.

I know there are programs for schools supplies, my company just recently participated in a program that gave some children from many schools bookbags full of school supplies. My point is schools should supply all the necessities, eliminating the need to have to go to stores trying to find supplies amongst the messes made by other people, having to do the long lines and just simply not having to worry about it at all. I know it’s a lot to ask but considering how not so expensive it is to buy it, why not have the schools supply it. I constantly hear here in Florida how the Lottery gives billions and how there are millions of dollars being poured into the Florida education system. Having been in Florida for 12 years, I don’t see where the hell that money is going to.

Again, it already is. Your kids aren't charged when they get on the schoolbus, are they?


Again, I know that. My point is there are some places, such as where I live where buses don’t pick up children for my sons school because we live within a certain distance. The problem is when we take him to school it takes us 45 minute to an hour just to drop him off. We could use a private school bus but that cost a lot. I think all children, and parents, deserve to have a bus pick them up, except maybe if you live 500 ft from your school, but then.

Also already in place. Ever hear of the school lunch program? In most areas, it also includes breakfast now. Yes, it is a 'means tested' program, meaning it's only available to low income students, but honestly, why should the taxpayer (many of whom do not have children in school) bear the burden of feeding children whose parents earn a comfortable living?


My son was on a school lunch program, he still had to pay even if it was about ¼ of what he pays now. But because I got a $1 raise we no longer qualify. But what I don’t get is why we pay at all, as a child I never paid for breakfast or lunch, not once. Breakfast and lunch are essential to children’s development, why the hell are we charging them for it?

I understand that part about those who don’t have kids should not have to pay for it, but in this case we are talking about the future of this country, our children. They are already paying for everything that has to do with public education, why not do a little more. This is not about giving free stuff to lazy people. It’s about giving those who may not be able to succeed in life and might end up as those lazy people a chance to avoid that. I would think that could somewhat lower the number of uneducated people that could end up living poor and draining our Gov’t of money thru assistance programs. May as well shift the money from one program to another, except this time we may get better results. But that’s just a theory.

The YMCA offers memberships on a sliding scale, I was only paying $15 per month for mine last year. As far as I know, the Boys and Girls Clubs only charge nominal dues, and probably have free services for low income kids, but I can't say for sure because I'm not entirely familiar with them. I do know many inner city areas offer a plethora of free after school activities in an effort to keep youngsters off the streets. (google 'midnight basketball' sometime.)

In addition, local churches organize youth activities at no charge, paid for by the congregation's donations. Even the little church Simon and I got married in, (Here's Hope Baptist Church) in tiny little Madison, Oh (population:3088) had stuff for kids to do several afternoons per week. There's plenty of stuff out there, Charles, people just need to take the initiative to find it.


Well, I had to pay $150 a week for my son in the YMCA. That’s why I went to the boys and girls club which was $120 a month. My problem with the Boys and Girls club is just that it’s not what you see on TV. Since when are pool tables and arcade games something to educate children? What ever happened to the sports and games they show on TV?

I know some churches do that but at the moment I am not in the religious system due to the fact that my faith is kinda lost and I am in search for something to believe in. Maybe once I find what I am looking for that church may be able to help me out. But I need something solid, something for every day, it’s bad enough I now have to take my lunch at 2:00 in the afternoon just so I can go all the way to my sons school to pick him up and drop him off at the B&G club leaving only 15 minutes to grab a bit and wasting gas in the process. Not to mention that because of this I have to keep the car and my wife has to catch rides with unreliable people to work. She has already missed a few days of work and has had to leave early as well. This is not looking good for our budget.

I just think when it comes to children, they should not have to pay the price for such a screwed up system like the one we have. Parents don’t have that much time now a days cause both have to work. School hours keep being moved back more and more and kids spend less time in school. I use to get out at 4:00, my son gets out at 2:00. That makes no sense.

I'm going to disagree here. Free healthcare is already provided for low income children, including surgery and care for chronic illnesses. But I do not feel that free (ie: taxpayer funded) healthcare needs to be provided for the children of affluent parents.


I guess that sorta makes sense but I just believe that all children, rich or not, deserve some kind of net just in case.

Again, you wish for something that's already available. Pell Grants never have to be paid back, and they aren't dependent on grades, either. There are literally hundreds of thousands of scholarships available, (which generally are grade-dependent) and for those who have exhausted their Pell grants, tons of studen loan programs exist, loans that aren't repaid until after graduation. Many companies also offer tuition reimbursement, even for their adult employees who want to go back to school.

It seems to me like we do PLENTY for children, so I don't know what you're saying here. Are we to make all the means-tested programs available to the children of the wealthy, too? They're already available at no charge to either ALL children (such as public education and transportation to school) or free for low income children (healthcare, after school programs, breakfast and lunch.)


OK so maybe the College part was too much. That’s why I asked what you think. I am not fully educated in all matters of education so I will come off a bit uneducated in some instances.

I agree we do plenty for kids. I just think we can do more since what were are currently doing does not seem to be working at a much better rate. I just don’t think children should get their education based on their income. Is that really a bad thing to believe in? This is not about the adults and giving them something for free when they can afford it. It’s about giving our children a chance to be something, even if they have money. It’s kinda interesting to see how most people I hear from who have gone to Yale or Harvard usually turn out to be from rich families. I just figure it would be nice to give others a chance by actually giving it to them.

So what are you complaining about again?


Well, my article was not so much a complaint LW. It was more of an idea that could use some or a lot ironing, as I stated at the end of it.

Not that I wouldn’t have expected it from you, but you do realized all you did was criticize the article and not once did you offer any ideas to make this better or what part should be done differently. But that’s OK, You made very good points, many of which I am aware of but still think can be done better. Again, it’s for the children. I just think we should not hold back when it comes to children.

Thank you for replying. Great stuff.
on Oct 17, 2007
Some schools, even public schools, have fees to be paid to get a schedule, and they hold the kids out of class until the fees are paid.


You know my son did not eat lunch the other day cause he had already used up his money in his account (since he is no longer on the lunch program he pays full price) and he had exceeded his account by 5 dollars. But the school never said anything about his account till he could no longer buy food. If that is not shameful, i don't know what is.
on Oct 17, 2007
My school lunchlady always alerted us to our remaining balance, especially if it was low.

Also, I paid for school lunch. I didn't eat breakfast at school. But you could bring a lunch, and that was a lot cheaper.
on Oct 17, 2007
But you could bring a lunch, and that was a lot cheaper.


Unless you are participating in the free or reduced price lunch program.
on Oct 17, 2007
Charles, I find it highly unlikely that you don't qualify for reduced or free lunches for your kids. My boys both qualified for FREE lunches this year.

You need to apply again and see if you qualify for something. The guidelines are ridiculously loose.
on Oct 17, 2007
I just looked up the guidelines. For this year, the cut off for reduced lunches (fam of 4) is $44,641 annually. You qualify for free lunches if your income is $29K or less.

(We only report base pay, which is about $26k for an E-5 with more than 4 but less than 6 years in service.)
on Oct 17, 2007
I could send you the letter if you want. I have it at the house. I barely make $25,000 myself. My wife makes around $20,000.
on Oct 17, 2007
Also, I paid for school lunch. I didn't eat breakfast at school. But you could bring a lunch, and that was a lot cheaper.


That is an OK idea, if it wasn't because my son is so picky. It would be easy to give him lunches. But you know what? I will have to start doing that. It's a shame though, I never paid for lunch during my school years. I just don't understand how the Florida Education system that has so much money being thrown at it makes children pay for food.
on Oct 17, 2007
It makes PARENTS pay for food. Parents who make over 45k, which you seem to, and even more if you get health insurance, or any benefits paid for, etc. Might not, but hey.

45k is a lot of money.
on Oct 17, 2007
My son will eat eggs in the morning for breakfast, but only if you don't give him anything else first. Yes, he WILL eat when he's hungry enough.
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